I've accidentily been accused of posting a video of a horrendous crime!
Yikes!! ~ But then again, it did leave me in stitches!!! ROLFLTSDMFBBBF!!
(and NO I'm not translating.)
Here's what I posted on my innocent site:
THE DAILY GROOVE ~ by Scott Noelle
:: "I'm Not A Frog-Boiler! " ::
When you reject authoritarian, coercive parenting in
favor of non-punitive, pleasure-oriented parenting,
critics and naysayers will warn you that your child
won't be able to cope in the "real" world.
The assumption is that "it's a jungle out there" and
we should gradually toughen up our kids and get them
used to suffering so they won't be shocked when they
venture out into the big, bad world.
It's like that famous experiment where they tossed a
healthy frog in boiling water and it leaped right out.
But if they put the frog in cool water and raised the
temperature gradually over several days, the frog
would be able to *adjust* and stay in the water.
The slow boil seems more humane, but that
"well-adjusted" frog eventually *died* from the heat!
Whereas the non-adjusted frog's intact sensitivity
protected it from being boiled.
Today, look for evidence that your child's sensitivity
is intact (e.g., negative reactions to unwanted
conditions) and be *grateful* for it! Tell yourself,
"My child will *never* get boiled!"
http://dailygroove. net/frog- boiler
And here's the comment that left me in stitches, which lead to this new blog!
Oh B&B.....I just can't bring myself to click on that video. I'm sure it can't really be of a frog boiling, but the image in my mind is taking over! AUGHGHGH!!!!